A few observations:
Resurrecting these memories reminded me of just how often people really do deliver for each other with no expectation that their effort be rewarded. It gave me hope and the incentive to try to do the same.
I’m not a bucket list person. Most people don’t have that luxury. It is a privilege to enjoy the rewarding cycle of being curious, trying something new, failing a bit and succeeding. I still want to try hard things and to finish what I’ve started. Between about six-teen and fifty-five years old the “hard things” and the “had to” was a way of life. Now it is a choice. It never want to stop taking risks and trying.
I love the breaking of a glass at the celebratory end of a Jewish wedding… representative of life’s fragility and the reminder to us all to commit to pick up life’s pieces and try to create good. So, I conclude on a sobering story because life is messy and our world is a mess. Creating the chance to say thank you is my way of picking up a few pieces of broken glass.
Finally, when did we stop putting a space between sentences? There are some things I’m just incapable of evolving.
2017: Dear Southern Poverty Law Center, An unplanned teaching moment
Dear Southern Poverty Law Center,
Road trips with your kids can lead to great unplanned experiences. While driving through the southern US to explore college choices for my daughters, your offices and the generosity of your staff was the best unexpected teaching moment.
2017: Dear Glenwood Springs Forest Ranger Jim, Thanks for fixing a road way less traveled!
The Capitol Peak wilderness is filled with rewarding hikes and epic summit views. However, the road to get to the trailheads is a real bear. In 2017 you were tasked with the gnarly job of carefully repairing and reconstructing this very steep, rocky, rutted out wonder of an access to a beloved back country wilderness aptly named “Hell Roaring”.
2018: Dear Albert Kriemler, My mom simply adored your dress
Dear Mr. Kriemler,
My Mom loved and collected Alexander Girard pieces- specifically his wooden dolls which were dotted around her home. Mom was from Michigan and worked at the Muse
2019: Dear Jordan Casteel, A glorious final outing
Dear Jordan,
My Mom, Mary Hoagland raised us un Denver and loved witnessing your work and career. She remained in great health most of her long life and we usually happily spent time with her at her home during our visits to Denver.
2019: Dear David Rosenblum, Heaps of perspective
Dearest David,
Dr. Seuss, cheese, Barnie, cookies, wind in your hair… you had remarkably simple needs for someone who endured way too much in your courageous and too short life. Not a day goes by that I don’t gain perspective and patience from your memory.
2019: Dear Minneapolis Precinct 5 First Responders, When your husband goes bump in the night
Dear 5th Precinct,
I get it is all in the course of a shift to step into someone else’s crises, but there is nothing “routine” about waking up to the sound of your husband hitting the floor in the middle of the night.
2020: Dear Mailman Dwight, “Neither snow nor rain nor heat nor gloom…”
Dear Dwight,
It must be so strange to dutifully walk your routes each day looking at familiar names and addresses and then one day, one of your grateful customers is gone. For over 20 years you were my parents trusted and loyal mailman.
2022: Dear Mack McCarter, Making Caring Contagious
Dear Mack,
It takes heart and courage to step into strangers. The pandemic, overwhelming divides and the brutal discord of our time muted my voice and my will to participate beyond my own close circle of family and friends.
2022: Dear Ute Mountaineering, Sure… you can be an uphill athlete
It is humbling at 60 to try to maintain your childhood favorite activities. Hours spent on a trampoline are off the menu and ice skating seems risky. My love of a dancefloor is tragically dated but, I will bust a move until the day I die.
2024: Rachel Henry, Just tell them you are came to learn
Dear Rachel,
I believe that the highest compliment you can pay someone is to fall apart in their presence- especially when you have known them for only a few minutes. I loved our spontaneous powerful conversation about race, bias and cancel culture that resulted in tears in the middle of a jewelry store.
2023: Dear Patry- Artisan for Henry Beguelin, Your bag is loved
Dear Patry,
I am lucky to own the Venta Clio Shopping Bag number BD5700 which you so carefully crafted. It is very nice that your company puts a card in every carefully, handmade bag so the person who buys it is aware of how unique and special it is.
Yesterday: Dear Sami, Guardian Angel
Dear Sami,
I know it is rude to eavesdrop, but your skill as a welcoming and engaging bartender was amazing to watch. You are friendly, funny and skilled companionship for whomever happens to stroll in and hop on a stool. It’s clear everyone has a place at your table.
Always: Dear family and friends, My greatest source of gratitude every day
Dear Family and Friends,
May my profound gratitude and thanks for my children, husband, grandchildren, extended family and remarkable friends never feel overdue.